If your nieces or nephews are like many children, they are probably very crazy about you. After all, there is nothing like the time they spend with their aunts and uncles.
However, given the competition some aunts and uncles face in terms of grandparents who also want to spend a special time with their favorite children, play dates with friends, school, sports, and the ever-present appeal of video games and television shows, It can be difficult to spend time on things to do with your niece and nephew for those extra special experiences where you create those outstanding memories, the ones that will last a lifetime.
So next time you’re planning some fun things to do with your nieces and nephews, try one of these five ideas to help you put together something truly memorable:
Give them a chance to try something they have never done with Mom and Dad.
The fastest way to earn cool points with your favorite little ones, and create memories that will last a lifetime, is to give them an experience they never had with their parents. These unusual things can be adventures to have at home, like a camping trip in the living room, a scavenger hunt in the yard, or an indoor scavenger hunt.
Or it could be events and activities that require you to get in the car and go somewhere, such as a themed restaurant they’ve never tried before, a drive through the country, a picnic in a park they’ve never been to, or a trip around town. the “memory lane” to see the important milestones of your own growing years.
Take a look at the live entertainment.
If your niece or nephew tends to spend a lot of time watching their favorite shows on the DVR or playing digital games, it’s about time they discovered the joys of live entertainment. Options to consider include dinner shows, community theater or productions at your local high school or college, concerts in the park, and musical performances at local churches.
Have a surprise party.
You can build excitement about your afternoon or evening with your nieces and nephews by letting them know a few days in advance that they are having an outing with you, but that they won’t know what the outing entails until they arrive. at your destination. Add fun and suspense with a systematic campaign in the days leading up to the event by dropping some strategic tips.
For example, if you are taking them to a sleepover at the zoo, you can arrange for a different clue to be placed on the breakfast table each morning: animal crackers one day, gift bags with new pajamas. next, etc.
Make them feel older.
Add some flair and uniqueness to your outing by planning something with an adult theme, for example, a “dinner” at home. You can ask the children to RSVP, suggest a “host gift” if the event involves them coming to your home, and help them choose fancy outfits. Even if the fare is hot dogs and burgers, you can keep the theme going by using your best plates and glasses, and sipping an “after dinner drink” of root beer soda or fancy lemonade.
Try a theme night.
A special theme for your outing can make the activity more memorable and help increase the excitement leading up to the event. You can make it seasonal, like “Summer Kickoff” or “Christmas in July,” or you can do something historic, like “80s Night” or “Medieval Night.” Have the kids do some research ahead of time or come up with special outfits or costumes to help them get into the spirit before the big day arrives. You can keep the theme going with themed party favors, conversation starters, dinner items, and more.