I guess you’re here because you met a cool guy, got his number, but now you don’t know what to text! You think to yourself, I want him to be more attracted to me, but I feel uncomfortable texting him. How do I get him to follow me around like a lost puppy instead of desperately waiting for his next text. Here are a couple of great texts to send a guy to keep his interest and create some crazy attraction.
Text messages asking for a response
Hey, I heard something interesting about you yesterday.
It was good talking to you last night, but I’m curious about something…
Are you always like this? (Something funny if there is no context)
Nice to meet you the other day, by the way, for an athlete you’re kind of smart.
All of the above stimulates his curiosity or just makes him want to text you. Things like this are great for sparking a conversation with a guy that you want to text right away. Once you’ve got the conversation flowing, you can move on to the next stage and start engaging in bratty/playful behavior.
Create attraction by being bratty/playful
I like guys like you, but I wish you were a little taller! (He is 6’5″)
I think you should hurry up and ask me out, I saw your best friend looking at me… (His best friend is gay)
With spoiled/playful you are driving interest and then pushing it away. A very simple example when texting a guy would be: “Wow, you’re hot! Hahaha, but don’t worry, you’re not my type…” While this isn’t terribly clever, it still leaves the target out. off balance, and almost forces them to respond.
The idea is to play a little with the boy, show your intelligence but with class. We don’t take cheap shots, but smart ones. We want to be the elusive fish that he really wants to catch. Here’s an example of a full text conversation with bratty/playful:
Him: Hi Jackie, what are you doing on Saturday?
You: why are you asking me out? because if so I’m not sure…
He hears! What is that supposed to mean?
You: Well, you’re attractive and all…but you seem like a potential stalker.
Him: Hahaha, I guess as a cop, you would expect that.
You: You’re right, but if you’re asking me out I have a request
Him: Oh no, now I’m scared.
You: you should be
The fact that? You are not going to tell me?
You: Are you asking me out?
Him: Yes, I’m officially inviting you to dinner.
You: Sounds great, but don’t get the wrong idea, I’m really just using you to get out of parking tickets.
This was an excellent text to send to a boy, really playful, slippery and spoiled. You were buzzing around him and he couldn’t pinpoint you. Now you feel a great curiosity to know what motivates you. You were much smarter and more interesting than him, and he wants to take back the power of him! Well played, and I hope he shows up for the date in uniform!
Make him ask you out over text
When texting a guy, I would be very cautious about asking him out, the woman who can pull this off without losing power is rare. I know you think this should be totally acceptable, but it’s not!
Have you ever heard the expression “men chase women until she catches him”? Do you see the truth here? You’re not a guy, you’re not the pursuer, even if you really like him. Rather, you allow it, lure it in, and trick it into chasing you. So you catch it! You are the bait and the trap, and you must learn to move the bait. However, sometimes you are allowed to tell her what to do when she texts you, for example:
You: Jack, I want to go to that new French restaurant near your house. I’m free next Friday.
Jack: Hahaha, that was abrupt, why don’t you ask me out?
You: It doesn’t work like that, I also refuse to drive, buy you flowers or open the door for you.
Jack: Okay, okay! I give up. I would love your company this Friday at Pierre Le Fran
You: Well done, I’ll have to double check my schedule, but I think I can include you.
Jack: Killing me girl, see you soon.
A more subtle approach:
Jack: What kind of food do you like?
You: I love French food!
Jack: Hey, did you know there’s a new French restaurant near my house? (Yes, of course you knew that)
You: Ah… I think I’ve heard of that place, it sounds cool, I wanted to go but I don’t have anyone to go with (I better take the damn hint but some guys are dumb or just afraid of rejection)
Jack: I’d love to take you, when are you free?
You: Friday would be perfect
There are many ways to do this, but your text still needs to be perceived as your idea or you are robbing him of the chance to be a man. Not only that, but every time you feel needed with a man, you will go from relationship potential to just sexual. It’s not a place you want to be.