Most of the time, masturbation is something a guy does on his own. Whether it’s because he’s concerned about maintaining penis health and knows a guy needs to “use it or lose it,” or because he’s just in the mood for a little pleasure, a guy will find time to masturbate. However, some men are interested in what it would be like to self-stimulate together with another man. For these men, the following tips may be helpful.
Straight?
While masturbation between two or more men is clearly a likely occurrence if a man is gay, it is interesting to note that many straight men have also masturbated with another man. Exact statistics are hard to come by, but a recent CDC study found that 2.3% of men who identify as heterosexual have had oral or anal sex with another man. This would seem to indicate that an even greater number of heterosexual men have masturbated with another boy, especially since such activity may be even more common among pubertal-age men.
Since gay men are more likely to find themselves in a situation where masturbation with another man is more likely, the following tips are geared more toward the straight man who is interested.
Tips
– Know the reasons. A man must be aware of why he has this interest and what he wants to get out of it. Curious to know how other men masturbate? Looking for validation that masturbation is “okay”? (It is, for the record!) Are you sexually aroused by the idea of other men gratifying themselves? Do you feel like it’s a bonding experience? And are you interested in masturbating with men in general, or with a particular man or men?
– Meet the expected masturbating partner. Is the preferred partner a stranger or an acquaintance, a friend, a colleague? If known, is there anything about him (comments he has made, for example) that suggests he may or may not be willing to masturbate with another man?
– Know the approach. Depending on the preferred partner, a guy can be direct or subtle. For example, if looking for a stranger, paying a visit to a local adult arcade can allow a guy to meet other men willing to openly masturbate while he watches a peep show with another guy. If he’s a friend, he might be open to simply asking, “Hey, I’ve always wondered what it’s like to jerk off to another guy. How about you?” Or is a more subtle approach required?
– Subtle. If it’s subtle, keep in mind that this can be a multi-step process and could go off the rails at any time. For some, it may be enough to say, “I have this amazing porn DVD, do you want to watch it?” Then, while he is sitting and watching porn, one guy may start looking for signs i.e. he gently massages his crotch, the other guy massages his, which hopefully lead to mutual masturbation.
But it can also take a few tries: start by simply talking about what turns him on one day, talk about his favorite fantasies another, talk about a particular porn star the next week, and finally move on to a discussion about how much each man masturbates.
It’s also important to remember that efforts can be met with strong rejection, and a man should be prepared for that and weigh that option before deciding to go ahead.
Tips for masturbation, whether alone or with a partner, should also include the use of a premium penis health cream. (Health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven to be gentle and safe for the skin) to keep the penis looking impressive when on display. Look for a cream that includes a range of vitamins, including A, B5, C, D and E, which when applied topically can provide tremendous benefits to the penis. It is also suggested that the cream contain acetyl L carnitine, especially if the penis is used roughly or frequently. This amino acid is excellent for protecting against penile sensitivity loss due to improper use.