Having been rejected by a man, it is natural for you to feel vindictive. You’re human, and a woman too! You have every right to feel hurt, but you must also rise from the ashes and show him what he’s missing!
Be better than ever.
Don’t just look pretty, look extremely beautiful! Wear your fanciest clothes and have the guys line up. When you look your best, make sure this guy sees you so he can tell you apart.
Ignore his obvious attraction.
He can give you admiring glances, but make it seem like you don’t notice. This is sure to throw him off balance and he will soon make it his goal to hunt you down and figure out what makes you tick. Always be one step ahead of him.
Let all their friends approve of you.
And you can only get their approval by becoming a popular figure in your area. If people naturally surround you, then this guy and his friends will surely be intrigued to know who is making waves lately. Don’t be surprised if he will soon be chasing you like a bloodhound.
Hit it with your best shot.
Show him what he threw away when he turned you down. This is the time to show all your assets and talents. Flaunt all of them and he will surely admire you for your new found confidence. Don’t let her rejection destroy the beauty in you.
Learn to forgive.
In order to have a good aura around you, you need to make sure that you let go of all the bad feelings that you still have for the man. He may have rejected you, but you still shouldn’t harbor any hard feelings towards him. If he sees no bitterness, this guy will surely admire you for your maturity and praise you for it.
Be courteous to him, but don’t go any further than that.
This is not the perfect time to rebuild burned bridges. You can still be friends with the guy without totally going back into his arms. If he ever wants to win you over again, make it hard for him to win you over this time.
Never lower yourself to the level of the other girl.
If the guy rejected you for another woman, then you shouldn’t even give him a chance to recover. Save some dignity for yourself. Once he realizes that you are so much better than the other woman, he will definitely want to get back together with you. Ignore him this time and show him that a million other men would compete to have you!