Use flirtatious humor
The first thing to do when creating an online swinger dating profile is to create an easy-to-remember username that is also attractive. Look at a few other profiles and you’ll soon notice that too many are quite mundane and unoriginal. You need to make yours different in a way that is easy to remember so that it stands out from the crowd.
In face-to-face encounters, an irresistible smile and flirtatious play are the main things that attract swingers to each other. Online communication works in exactly the same way and the profiles written for this purpose will be the ones that attract people. Just like nobody wants to date or flirt with boring, serious people most of the time; no one wants to read online dating profiles that are boring and humorless.
Describe the swingers you want to meet
Consider in detail the type of swingers you want to meet, and then describe them in your profile. This does not mean that you have to be really picky. The danger of being too selective is that you will end up excluding people with whom you would otherwise have enjoyed a very good relationship. For example, if you are a single man with a profile that specifies that you are only interested in meeting single women, you will miss out on some sensational threesomes with partners who would also have turned out to be the most likely source of introductions for the swinger. party scene for you
Be especially careful not to make a list of what you don’t like. Profiles that do are a huge turn-off for everyone who reads them and not just the people the list is targeting.
Include your swinger lifestyle experiences
It’s important to include your swinger lifestyle experiences in your online profile, but the worst thing you can do is claim experiences you’ve never had or make wild exaggerations. Profiles that make up or exaggerate experiences are usually pretty easy to spot, but even when they’re created, others will expect you to live up to the described experience, and bogus claims have a nasty habit of falling apart in face-to-face meetings.
Even if you haven’t had any experience with the lifestyle, it’s better to say it than to say nothing. There are actually many swingers who are attracted to the idea of having sex with a complete lifestyle newbie. Every swinger was a newbie at some point!
Includes sexual fantasies too
Swingers want to know about your sexual fantasies as well as your real life experiences, so be sure to include some in your online profile. As well as ensuring the exclusion of any fantasies that might suggest illegal sexual acts, the only note of caution here is to leave out any fantasies that are generally considered distasteful within the swinger lifestyle community.
read before posting
Before posting a swinger dating profile online, take some time to consider it from the reader’s point of view. Imagine that you are the reader, a person (or couple) who has never met you. Ask yourself how that person could imagine you. Is he self-confident, arrogant, or reserved? Can you imagine a playful, creepy, bored or serious person? Do you sound honest, insincere, or unreliable, etc.?
essential photography
Online profiles that don’t have photos rarely attract anyone’s interest so it’s essential that you include one. Make sure you get a good full face and body shot and avoid nasty and obscene images at all costs. It never ceases to amaze me that many men seem to believe that a close-up image of their penis is the kind of profile picture that will attract women. Mockery and ridicule are all those unpleasant photos that are received.
swinger couple profiles
Swinger couples create joint online profiles. The ideal is to project an image of a happy couple who will be fun to be with. It is essential that couples create their profiles together as a couple and it is a great idea to have fun while creating it. Compiling a profile while engaging in foreplay can be a real turn-on, which is likely to be passed on when the profile is read afterwards.
It’s a good idea to feature private bedroom adventures as well as your experiences as swingers. Write about your relationship with each other and explain how and why you decided to get into the swinger lifestyle. This is exactly what other couples want to read when looking for swing partners.
As in the case of singles, it is essential that the profiles of swinger couples include photographs and these, ideally, should be of both members of the couple. If only one photograph of the couple is included, make sure it is one of the female partner. Couple profiles featuring a photograph of the male partner only Never attract too many positive responses. Most people who see such a profile will jump to the conclusion that if the woman exists, she is likely to be a passive or unwitting participant in the swinger relationship!
A special note for single men.
Single men need to understand that the majority of women (whether single or in a relationship) who use swinger dating sites crave adventure and excitement. Self-confidence, masculinity, humor mixed with a degree of mystery are the kind of qualities that the male profile needs to project to satisfy this longing. Appearing to be the nice guy they can meet every day is not the best way to attract these women.
Sometimes men who use swinger dating sites may need to remind themselves that they are not looking for romance or conventional dating, long-term relationships. If your profile ends up suggesting this, you may not get much of a response. On the other hand, it’s also important not to emphasize the purely sexual side of things to the point where the profile sounds like a crude and immature rant.
Communicate your sex appeal in the most natural way possible and avoid bragging about having incredible sexual stamina. Most women are more likely to view a long-acting repeater as a potential source of vaginal pain than a carrier of ecstatic pleasure.
Online profiles for swinger lifestyle women
Most of what has been said above applies in one way or another to online profiles of single women. The main additional point to note is that as a single woman, your photo will be the first thing other swingers look at. Therefore, it is essential that you do it right. Never use an old photo and don’t be afraid of overtly sexual, vulgar, or even sexually explicit shots. You are posing for swinger lifestyle contacts, not romantic LTRs! Dress (or undress) to get excited and just draw the line on those silly gynecological close-ups sometimes seen on female online swinger dating profiles.