“MOTHER” … is not just a word, but also a collection of emotions that strengthen us throughout our lives. The moment these syllables resonate in our minds, an aura of comfort and relief surrounds us. Our crumbling soul seems to find support for a moment, from the ever-exhausting struggle through life. The feelings of love, care, sacrifice, guidance, selflessness and protection are hidden in this single expression. A child begins to experience these feelings even when he is not part of this harsh world and no matter how old he is; he always needs his mom when he’s in pain.
These feelings are universal and we all feel them with the same intensity and depth. It is the most sincere, always helpful and unconditional love that always pours out the best on us and never expects a reward. We can never return our mother’s boundless love, but we can at least acknowledge and express our gratitude. All year long we take this blessing for granted. Mother’s Day is an occasion when we can make our mom feel special and thank her for all that she has done for us. It’s time to break away from worldly affairs and give some time to the person who has been helping us through all the good times and the bad. Here I will share with you some simple things, that will make your mom feel really happy and proud of you.
1 Nothing makes a mother feel more euphoric than children who remember her on special days and Mother’s Day is one of them. Start your day with a well prepared breakfast, a bouquet of fresh flowers and a sincere hug, which will reveal your love and its importance in your life.
2 Make this day an exclusive day by giving it a break from the daily grind. May she relax and have time for her, for her own interests, which she has been putting off for our comfort. You can watch a movie that you have been planning for a long time, or you can plan a visit with friends or loved ones. A meeting at your home will add festivity to this auspicious day, until you sort things out yourself.
3 Due to the crowded routine, we do not spend quality time with mom. Sometimes we don’t even bother to say; thank you or sorry, to her. Time to make amends for all those jumps. The reflection of feelings is necessary in any relationship. It doesn’t matter how closely connected we are in strong bonds, but they require affirmation and expression. Despite being a mother, she is a human being who needs your care and encouragement. On this day, acknowledge your efforts and pains that you have done for you. Accept that it has helped you through difficult times. You value their wisdom and experience and you will always need their good advice. You are grateful for everything; you love her and always will.
4 Money never matters in this relationship. If you can buy an expensive gift of your choice, go ahead. If not, don’t worry. Make a special card for her or a simple handmade gift that will show that you love her and that you have saved time to make these special things for her. These simple gestures of love will invigorate your mother for months. She has been fighting so that every moment of our life is special, it is the day to thank her for everything.