You have to be prepared for all that that entails if you plan to leave because the notion of whether a love relationship can be saved is out of the question.
Ending a relationship is not something to be taken lightly, especially when a lot of time or years were involved.
If you answered “No” to the question Can a relationship be saved? Here are some tips to help you through this not-so-fun experience.
Make a solid decision:
Do you really want to end the relationship and are you not caught between the indecisive notions of staying or leaving?
Many times people will use the risk of leaving a relationship as a way to get something, or even to finally revive the relationship.
Seriously plan an outing before you even bring up the subject:
It’s best to go in prepared, so before you even mention a potential breakup with your partner or your household, think about how you’ll go about making your breakup as painless as possible for everyone involved.
Consult with a neutral party:
Get some breakup advice preferably from a professional marriage therapist or someone who can be neutral while supporting your move.
leaving a few months old the relationship is very different departure on several years relationship, so be sure to plan properly.
Then it starts moving forward:
When you have everything planned out and ready to move on in life, then it is time to move on without looking back or regretting the past, and definitely not fearing the future.
This action is vital, if you go ahead with this, then that has to be it.
You can’t waver from one side to the other, and the best thing you can do, both for yourself and your partner, is to simply be positive about your decision.
Cut all contact with your now ex-partner:
This will be the make or break period. If you give in to temptation, you interact with them, you might be influenced to come back, and if not, you’re just messing with them.
It is best to ignore any contact with them, although there are apparent exceptions if other things are involved, such as children.
I discussed in a similar session earlier what to do when you notice signs that he or she is thinking of leaving the relationship.
Never talk bad about your ex:
You don’t want to foster any negative feelings between you and your ex, no matter how or why the relationship stopped working.
If it was a bad breakup and the idea of whether a relationship can be saved was totally out of the question, then just don’t say anything.
If the relationship had some fine points that you still like in your memory, then honor those good times in your mind.
As the old adage goes, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything.”
It’s okay to be sad
Take the time to grieve the loss of your relationship if you feel any sadness, even if you initiated the breakup.
If you really thought seriously and deeply enough about deciding whether a relationship can be saved, and chose NO with relationship problems, you can now move on to a comfortable new beginning.
Visualize new experiences ahead:
Take some time to grieve, and then spend some time to be happy and see some light in being a single individual as you continue to heal.
Tea career in miracles teaches: “Vision depends on light. You cannot see in the dark.”
Ultimately, you’ll want to try again because very few people want to be alone permanently.
If you’ve come to a conclusion about whether a relationship can be saved and you’re seeing that leaving the relationship is the right thing to do, then you need to be prepared for everything that’s at stake.
Don’t be shy about seeking breakup advice if you’re getting ready to end your relationship, because there are plenty of great tips and healing suggestions a professional can help you with.
Next, let’s consider whether you should consider any kind of breakup advice and what you should prepare for if, in fact, thoughts of whether a relationship can be saved have faded from you.
(I also suggest searching the web for more helpful content on things like signs your partner is thinking about leaving or getting divorced, and how to fix the relationship if that’s what you want to do.)
To success in love and in life!