How you prepare to give oral sex (by giving guys a blowjob or by giving a girl oral sex and cunnilingus) for the first time will have a big influence on whether you find the experience fun and pleasurable, or horrible and disgusting.
First let’s deal with blowjobs. Here are some tips for getting used to the idea of giving a guy a blowjob before performing the act of fellatio itself.
Watch some adult movies. To get a good idea of what to expect when giving a guy a blowjob, get hold of some adult movies that are blowjob-oriented. Believe it or not, the best ones are from the gay range. The reason for watching gay men engage in oral sex is simple: they are full of enthusiasm, and just by looking at them you can tell that they love doing it. For some first time girls who have never had a man’s penis in their mouth, this can be a real eye-opener.
Practice with a banana, carrot, or other phallic object. Select an object that is at least five or six inches long and has a little girth. There’s a good chance you haven’t even seen your man’s penis (unless you’ve already given him a handjob or two), so you might be in for a surprise. If his manhood is bigger than this, don’t worry, you don’t need to take the entire length down the throat.
However, some women, to their own surprise, discover a talent for deep throating. This knowledge usually comes as your experience with oral sex increases. The main reason to practice with objects first is to assess what type of gag reaction (reflex) you will have. If you gag easily, then you won’t do very deep blowjobs, at least as long as you’re a beginner.
Also be prepared for the following. Your guy’s penis may have a slight odor, which is normal. If it’s too much to bear, you may have to ask him to wash. Don’t be embarrassed to ask, because if he wants a blowjob bad enough, he’ll literally run to the bathroom.
If you are concerned about the taste and texture of the semen, let your man know beforehand so he can let you know before he comes. If you are adventurous and want to try, by all means give it a try. Of course, have a handkerchief, a rag or a towel handy, and also a little water to rinse in case it accidentally comes into your mouth when you have asked for not much. The taste and texture may not be to your liking. People are different about how they deal with a man’s sperm, there is no right or wrong here.
Cunnilingus – Oral Sex for Women
The taste of a woman’s vagina is different from that of a man’s penis. For starters, it’s constantly wet (usually) and secretes fluids. When you put your mouth on a vagina for the first time, it can be quite a shock.
As with men, don’t be afraid to tell your woman if her genitals need a quick wash. If she likes to be eaten out of her, she will. Unlike men, the chances of your girl ejaculating in your mouth are much lower, although it cannot be ruled out. Just be prepared for I might to occure.
Also, take a look at some lesbian adult movies to get an idea of what you might like to try when performing oral sex on a woman. There are a million techniques, but the main thing to remember is: pay attention to all its parts – the clitoris, the lips, even inserting the tongue inside can be a delight for the giver and the receiver. Licking a woman’s urethra shortly after she urinates can also cause a bit of a taste surprise, so be prepared for that.
Finally, with cunnilingus, your partner may or may not be shaved. If she shaves, her vaginal odor is usually (but not always) milder, plus you can reach the entire area much more easily to give her all the oral pleasure she deserves.
With oral sex for both men and women, the main thing is to be patient, attentive and aware knowing that body fluids are your ultimate reward for having a good blowjob.