“My mother said it was easy to have a man, you have to be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom …” – Jerry Hall
When Jerry Hall said those famous words, he was talking about the ideal woman in the 1980s. Probably not much has changed and the same type of woman would still be attractive now. The same goes for the women in our lives, none of them want a one-dimensional man who is easy to understand. Even the shortest survey of online women’s magazines revealed that the list of traits women prefer in men included loving, nerdy, tough, passionate, and chivalrous. The key to being her fantasy boy and giving him more erotic orgasms is knowing which boy he wants and when …
You probably have all of those traits in you, but not at the same time. That is why role-playing games can help “fill in the gaps.” You become more chivalrous or more manly than normal. One of the best tips for role-playing games is “be what you are not.” Tough men should wear a suit and tie from time to time. Similarly, businessmen should go and do some exciting or dangerous activity wearing stereotypical “macho” clothing. The key is to keep her guessing and excited with each date, not knowing what to expect.
Variety is the key to your (sexual) life
Part of the excitement of sex comes from never having understood each other and never forgetting to surprise each other. Women love the thrill of never knowing exactly what is coming. Once he thinks he’s mastered you, have fun mixing and matching your fantasies. Go to a quick coffee in a suit or be very sexual in an expensive restaurant.
Sex is the best time to really mix the styles and give it a great emotional roller coaster. Having frenetic sex, with soft and sensual kisses is a great example. Likewise, soft, loving sex can be broken through harder moments without losing the vibe. Remember it’s just a fantasy, so give it a couple of different ones at once.
Women ultimately want a complete man. The perfect type for them is the one who can give them different things at different times. Where guys go wrong, both in and out of the bedroom, is that they only give their partner one thing. So have fun being the different sides of your personality. On the other hand, there is also nothing wrong with being sexual all the time. Even Jerry Hall agrees, the second half of his quote reads, “I said I’d hire the other two and take care of the bedroom!”